17th Aug 2014

Re-calibrate – Today is a New Day

We all crave to be validated by others, however, first we need to validate ourselves. As I travel my amazing journey, I am peeling away at the layers of judgement...

17th Aug 2014

Between a rock and a hard place

Hi beautiful friends! I hope you had an amazing weekend. Today I returned from our awesome women’s retreat with some fabulous ladies I invited to my Poconos home. 2 out...

30th Jul 2014

I “ain’t” average – and neither are you!

When the video in your head keeps playing reminding you that you should have and could have done things differently with the person you can no longer have or hold….it...

30th Jul 2014

Changing lives as I change my own

I had a very controlling personality…it was paralyzing to say the least. Ever since Marlon passed away, I have relinquished control of many, many things..because I realized that the more...

30th Jul 2014

My little engine that could and will!

Oh shoot…that’s right I’m an author! It’s been about a month since I left my job – and because I havent figured out how to duplicate myself…I had to pause...

30th Jul 2014

Newsflash: Widows are allowed to grieve

I am completely aware that I have made myself a public figure – I know that! Sometimes I may share things that makes people concerned about the way I handle...

30th Jul 2014

That F’in ugly grief!

That ugly grief that makes you want to crawl up in a ball and have a pity party has been trying to creep up on me. Maybe it’s because my...

13th Jul 2014

REJECTION!

As a child, did you know that you were special and carried special gifts? I did. I had fantasies that someone would come knock on my door and say “hey...

13th Jul 2014

He’s everywhere

When my kids can experience their dad’s death this way – I know that I am doing a good job handling his passing. Thank you God! (Gone, gone, gone is...

13th Jul 2014

Before and After (from the inside out)

I came across this collage today that I posted almost 2 years ago. This collage means more to me today than it did when I first posted. In a 5...